Endometrial Cancer Survivor

Ali
L.
Texas

In March 2010, after several D&Cs and biopsies due to irregular periods, I was told I had cancer. I was shocked and angry because I'd spent the past three years pursuing a hysterectomy for that exact fear. My mother and several other family members had GYN cancers. Always, I was told I was too young. My husband and I left our daughter in her grandma's care while we flew from our base in Germany for a hysterectomy. During the surgery, another biopsy was taken and showed no cancer. Relieved, we were ready to fly back two weeks later. The night before our return, we got the call that cancer had been found on my ovary and the other part of my uterus. I was stage 3. within days, I had a port placed and started chemotherapy. I did six rounds and then 33 doses of radiation. It took the military almost four months to get my husband reassigned. I was devastated to be away from my daughter and she was terrified. I have been done with treatment for almost a year now, and I have severe pain in my hips and back daily. I guess from radiation. I also have arthritis there and my knees and hands now. I'm only 37. But I'm here. I plan on being here for a long time to come. I still have some anxiety about it coming back. My survival rate is 45% ... Which is great if you're trying to win the lotto, but I don't feel it's that great now. It's not going to define me though. I'm blessed with a great hubby and daughter. I love this crazy life!

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Hi, Ava! Sorry for the delayed response. I just saw your post, so I hope you get this. My attitude is just a choice I make every day. I can chose to let this consume me or get up and go about my day ... Easier said than done right? Yeah, sometimes it is. Believe me, I have days where I wanna scream. Mostly that happens when I hear stories about it coming back or someone with a higher survival rate by stats that somehow didn't make it. Those things can make it hard when I look at my preteen daughter and wonder if I will see her wedding, but I try to remember cancer didn't take those things from me -- there's no guarantees that wouldn't mean I die tomorrow from a car wreck or whatever. Each day is a blessing, healthy or not. And how we handle it directly affects how our loved ones handle it, and so on. As for my pain, it's still here. I've been told that if you have arthritis that the treatments can cause it to really start flaring and then there's scar tissue from the radiation and surgeries. It's a daily thing, but staying as active as I can helps and really listening to my body when I need rest. I also have pain killers I take most evenings because by then I'm so stiff and hurting, but it's a small price to pay for life, right? God bless, Ava. If you ever need to talk, you an email me anytime at sgtleone1201@yahoo.com

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I am trying to respond to your post an failing How do you keep so positive. Your post made me feel better. Did your back and hip pain start right after treatment. Thanks for your post